I'm Not Doing That Anymore A DIY Boundaries Manifesto

Written by M.H. Clark

Illustrated by Jessica Phoenix

Recognize your needs and state your boundaries with this collection of short yet empowering fill-in statements, ready for your personalized truths.

When you declare, “I’m not doing that anymore,” you are doing more than saying no—you’re saying yes to the truest parts of yourself. You’re choosing to set meaningful boundaries and protect your peace. 

I’m Not Doing That Anymore is part manifesto, part mirror: both a place to stand up for what you believe in and to see yourself more clearly. With short, punchy, fill-in-the-blanks statements, this interactive book invites you to name your boundaries, claim your truth, and move forward with courage.

There’s more than one way to work through these pages: You can write down your answers and notice what you discover; leave the pages blank and see how your declarations shift over time; keep the book on your nightstand or coffee table to leaf through whenever you need; or tear out your favorite pages and display them like posters—above your desk, beside your bed, or anywhere you need reminders to honor your boundaries. This fierce little book is a celebration of self-awareness, self-expression, and your personal power. 

Write 18 different declarations with creative prompts such as:

Starting now, I respect myself way too much to continue _____. 

Just because I can _____ doesn’t mean I have to. 

I will no longer _____ just to make other people comfortable.